I didn’t always live this story, I decided to become the author. You have the power to rewrite too. I hit my rock bottom before I saw the light of my 20’s and because of it I found myself caught in too many toxic patterns to count. People pleasing – check, following the should’s – check, worthiness wounds – check, sisterhood wounds – check, leadership wounds – check. I was living a life, but I wasn’t really here. It was like I was on autopilot just moving through.

I’d like to tell you it was my rock bottom that changed it all for me, but truly I drowned out a few years of my life before I woke up.

It’s not the ten years of therapy that changes our life, it’s not the rock bottom, it’s certainly not following some pre-laid out path that worked for hundreds of other people.

It’s the one moment that changes your life. It’s often subtle, much more subtle than we expect. I know I was waiting for God the almighty to come down and hand me a golden scroll that says I’d finished my time of suffering. *Face palm*

I lived frozen in the miserable for a long time until a quiet nudge that changed it all.

I heard a voice that called for change — and for the first time ever, I listened in. One decision to move states and start a new chapter kickstarted one of the most wild rides of my life.

⟡ When you choose to make that one decision, and I mean really choose it, it creates a ripple effect across your entire life. ⟡

After starting my first business, in what felt like a simple social media scroll, personal development found it’s way into my life. I consumed all of the podcasts and books and blog posts. I focused on me and I made new decisions.

From there — life moved pretty quickly into the extraordinary, I built 3 businesses, bought my first one way plane ticket, lived in other countries, dove in the Maldives with the love of my life, hiked volcanoes… life was grand.

Then in 2018, sitting on a rooftop in Thailand I received a text from my mom that my brother had been paralyzed from the waist down from a pretty vicious tumor. I made my way home back to the states just in time to be with him 2 weeks before he passed away under the light of the crescent moon.

Everything shattered. I was feeling completely burnt out realizing I had been going, going, going for 2 years straight. I was living by other people’s stories of success. Not to mention, I seemed to pile up a mountain of debt along the way. So, I burned it all to the ground.

Have you ever had a moment like that? Where life probably looks good to others on the outside but you just can’t take it anymore… you just want to burn it to the ground and start again?

Life doesn’t stop moving just because you found “success.” Life was good but I was operating in a way that wasn’t really sustainable for me.

At that moment I realized, I never fully faced all of those patterns that were still buzzing in the background of my extraordinary story.

I started learning about our unique energy through Human Design and how to create sustainable, balanced success for our individual self… How to truly live your magic because in the end, that is truly the greatest gift we can give to the world.

I detangled all of the conditioning, owned my past, and placed beautiful manifestations in my future.

I went from living a surface level extraordinary life to truly living a life fully alive. Even in the seasons of hard, the seasons of anxiety… there is peace.

About those manifestations… I paid off all my debt in 18 months, felt ease in rocky seasons, built a business around sustainable success for me, I’m in the healthiest relationship of my life, I travel well and often. I lead my life. And most importantly I feel each moment. I feel it all. And wow is it so, SO sweet.

All of that magic took one moment of decision. One moment to decide to walk a different path. I can’t help but spread that kind of magic around like a confetti popper at your birthday party.